The Topology Wars rage on.

"Quads are the only truth!"

"Ngons are evil!"

If you think that way here is what I think you should do.

Build yourself a bridge and get over it.

Topology needs to follow a purpose.

If your project requires to go quads, then go quads.

If it does not, then stop wasting...

Back in 2020 we have created a free Topology Handbook for Blender.

Recently we have released a brand new version of it.

You can grab it for free in here:

Topology Handbook 2.0 for Blender (FREE)

Knowledge of topology is essential for polygon modeling, regardless of the software you are using.

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